Workout

So today i went to my kickboxing class for the first time becuz normally i stick to the choreographing hip hop classes. So anyway i went to class today and i was surprised at how intense it was not only do i feel refreshed but i really do advise anyone who is serious about getting in shape to do kickboxing it touches abs and your arms and legs it really gets you toned and feeling great. I was only alittle sore after today but it was worth eery cent besides classes only $17 instructors are great and helpful also they keep u going music helps tooo in case you cant pay for a class every week then leave a comment asking me to post a video for a class and i'll do soo maybe you can watch and kickbox with me ive learned alot and found a new great love.... Kickboxing empowers women (oh nd i was mad before the class i let out alot of anger with the weights and punching and stuff try it i'll bet you like it)

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QOTD: Im in love/relations with my boyfriends best friend (SAY WHAT NOW?!)

So you've been with your boyfriend for how long and now youve have grown close to his friends and at this point all of a sudden you have grown closer to one of his friends than you thought you would. It seems like his bestfriend has become more attractive to you than he normally is and that hasnt really seemed like a problem until one day he was there and you were there and together you made magic happen. (not sex)..

Now the problem is that your feelings have been noticed by eachother and now you have the option to abandom them or continue on. For those who have chosen to continue you have stepped into serious danger zone. Being in relations with the bestfriend of your spouse can get seriously rocky.

1) the lying you have to do will only get worse and worse as you have to figure out why you cant and can be certain places with certain people that you havent been with before

2)You cannot have sex with the both of them at the same time and if you do then your just nasty lmfao.... ny way seriously doing that could possibly get you caught

3)Stay away from hickeys and other marks of love from your other because that doesnt help the situation also stay away from places where the both of them are going to be to avoid an akward situation that could possibly get you caught..

(you see where im going with this?)

Basically the point is to contine on with your boyfriend and ignore the possible lusts from his bestfriend majority of the time he's not worth it anyway because he's not even loyal to his friend stay away from nasty affairs like this got it good?

NEED HELP LEAVE A COMMENT

(theyre hard to get out of and easy to get in but its imporatant to get out safely and quietly check an upcoming post to how to leave a situation like this)

Being A Follower ( ways to know you r and how to break the habit)

Listen this is for the FA (followers anonymous)

ATTENTION: IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO BREAK THE HABIT READ BELOW

ALSO IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO FIND OUT IF YOU DO THIS READ BELOW!

1: If you find your self attending places, the movies, shopping trips or w.e just because your girl ask you too thats a 50/50 step 1 to being a follower (sometimes you are just being a good friend)

2: If you stop whatever your doing to go with this person or tend to their needs uh huh step 2 flashing lights you should do what you need to do unless this person is in harms way or absolutely needs your help

3: You base your decisions whether buying a dress or deciding what to eat and when to call your boy/girl friends step 3 your definately getting warmer and you should stop immeadiately

4: If this person bad mouths you and you allow them to do so even when your in public and you brush it off like its nothing and make comments to other friends about what they're doing yet not doing anything about it step 4 Your a follower Ok

RECOVERY

1:You need to admit that you are being a follower to yourselves and your friends (sometimes they can make you feel better once they see that you understand what youve been doing ) [not the person who youve been following and if theyre your only friend than god help you lmfao]

2:Try to break the habits go about your daily routine dont always answer the phone when they call and maybe call another friend when you have a problem or dilema spread your situations among some of your friends not just them you make them feel like you need them to survive and tey become cocky and feel that your needy

3:Work on ignoring their comments about what to wear and when to wear it who to go out with etc.. become your own person if they dont think someone is cute and you think they are dont agree with them stand your ground and say well they are to me

4: Dont let their bad moods put you down followers change their mood to who they are following just simply be in your mood and if your being cheerful and thye dont want to try it then tell them you hope they feel better but you have to go (if your on the phone or in person) getting away from the bad mood will show them your in charge

5:When theyre rude or bad mouth you stand up for yourself and let them know that they have taken advantage of you and they cant do it anymore then move on if they become bitchy about the changes then theyre not your friend if they accept it then they probably werent trying to make you feel like that on purpose

6:You have officially graduated FA

Sucking Dic? (really?)

So today is my first day blogging but it's about time i made a blog because i have so much to say so i would appreciated comments and love but if you hatin take that shit out the door please because i dont hate on ya'll i simply tell whats on my mind. I dont bash nobody ( lol sometimes)

But anyway lets continue on to the first blog ......................

Anyway so web surfing is one of my many hobbies that i do often to find new things. I do my own flyers for parties, sweet sixteens etc.. im down with E3 designs website coming soon look for it!!!!

So continuing on i was surfing the web and came across a youtube post about sucking dick i mean literally on how to do it and such things like that i honestly had to sit there and laugh. I mean i don't knock people because youtube has gotten people all types of chances and shit like that but dont you think if your professional career has nothing to do with dicks that maybe youtubing yourself discussing questions about sucking dicks and answering questions is alittle too much? All i want to know is you dont want to be called a slut, hoe, or any bad mouth name but yet you put out wht you do on the internet. Personally all jobs have to get done just like taking out the trash but be serious your a lawyer by day and a sucking dick expert at night? It just doesnt add up double lives are not good for the soul!!!!!!!!!! Anyway basically i just want it to be told that if thats what you want to do with your life then ok but stop posting these things knowing that you dont want to be a certain way and expect the comments about your looks and shit if your posting a video especially dont cry about what someone commented on your video because someone called you ugly! now be serious you know you went on that video looking like you just woke up on the wrong side of the bed from a nightmare and you decided to video yourself like that was smart and now your crying in the corner about not being pretty and bitching at people because you put yourself out there with no make up!....

This is the first official blog and there will be more to come if you have questions you want me to answer videos to review comment leave a link or anything ill be more than welcome to give my comments on the things you seee !!!!!!!!!

ILY